By Bilkis Abdulraheem Lawal
Single Muslims have been advised to be mindful of the company they keep and exercise caution when choosing life partners, in accordance with Islamic teachings.
This admonition was given by Mrs Shafi Busurat Adeola, guest lecturer at the Sisters’ Circle Seminar organised by the Ansar-ud-Deen Youth Association of Nigeria (ADYAN), Akoka Branch. Her lecture, titled “Understanding the Halal Relationship and Marriage Preparation,” centred on the principles of lawful relationships and the foundations of successful Islamic marriages.
Mrs Adeola expressed concern over the activities of certain groups who, under the guise of religion, conduct marriages among themselves without the consent of parents or family members, a practice she described as “alien to Islam.”
She explained that Islam encourages due diligence before marriage, noting that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) outlined four key qualities to consider in a prospective spouse: financial stability, beauty, family background, and faith. She added that faith remains the most important of these virtues.
“Those who marry for faith are the best,” she emphasised, urging parents and guardians to make proper inquiries and uphold Islamic values before approving any union.
In her welcome address, the Youth Amirah of ADYAN Akoka, Hajia Ismat Gbadamosi, commended participants for their commitment to personal growth and spiritual enlightenment. She described the seminar as “a sanctuary where hearts connect, ideas are shared, and spirits are uplifted.”
The Amirah also highlighted the importance of financial literacy in the face of global economic challenges, noting that the seminar included a session led by an investment expert from Lotus Capital Investment to educate members on ethical financial planning and investment in line with Islamic principles.
The well-attended event featured engaging discussions, interactive sessions, and games to foster a lively and friendly atmosphere among participants.
Leave a Reply